My baby can't stop crying, what must i do?

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The answer is love! based on Super Bright Baby book by John Fardon.

Yap at first i read the book it is quite unpractical and then i  and maybe you wonder on how love can soothe my future baby 's cry, don't you?

The answer is
If your baby cries, respond to her as quickly as you can. Work on building an emotional bond right from the start and keep going. Dont just feed and clothe your baby and put her to sleep, respond to her with as much as love you can, staying alert to any sign of a smile or an interest and giving it back generously, and of course cuddle, kiss, and tickle her as much as you think she wants -John Farndon
How if i let my baby cry until she/he feel tired and stop to cry?

If a baby is left to cry for a very long time, she may go quiet and and stop crying, but that's because she is simply shutting down to concentrate on survival. While crying, she will experience on increase in heart rate, blood pressure, and respiration as stress hormones course through her body. if she is exposed to these stress hormones for long, their effect can be damaging. If the baby eventually decides that no one coming to help her, she will retreat from the external world into her internal one, and the hormones released at this point can also harm her fragile growing brain. - John Farndon
   

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